Lots of people have asked me: ‘which buttplug or dildo would be best for anal beginners?’ This is an important question and one that I have spent a lot of time researching. I’m here to share with you the knowledge I’ve gained and to hopefully help a few others work out what could be the right choice for them.
When you’re an anal beginner, the very first thing you should consider is size. It is important to start small – I recommend beginning with something that is 1.25 inches in diameter or even smaller. The smaller the size, the less intimidating it will be. Buttplugs and dildos that are too big can be hard to insert and ultimately uncomfortable. As an anal beginner, you don’t want to go with anything too big as it can cause pain and even physical injury.
When it comes to material, I usually recommend silicone. It’s hypoallergenic and non-porous which means it’s easy to clean. It also warms up to your body temperature which makes it an especially comfortable material for those who are new to anal play. Glass and stainless steel are also good choices, but both materials are slightly harder than silicone and therefore won’t warm up to your body temperature.
When it comes to finding a specific dildo or buttplug, there are dozens of options. I usually recommend starting with a smaller silicone buttplug that is 1.25 inches in diameter or smaller. This is a great size to start with because it’s small enough to be comfortable but still large enough to provide some stimulation. You can always move up to a larger size when you’re ready.
There are also lots of lovely dildos to choose from. Personally, I like the ones that have a curved shape and a wide flat base. This makes them comfortable and safer for anal use since they’re less likely to get “stuck” inside.
When it comes to lube, always go for a water based lube. It’s the safest and most comfortable option when it comes to anal play. It’s also safe to use with silicone toys, so you don’t have to worry about ruining your toys. Silicone lube is also an option, but it shouldn’t be used with silicone toys as it has the potential to ruin them.
So there you have it – my advice on which buttplug or dildo would be best for anal beginners. The most important thing to remember is to start small and choose a size and material that feels comfortable and safe for you. I can’t wait to hear your journey and experiences!
When it comes to anal sex dolls, relaxation is key. It is important to always make sure to take your time and never rush into anything. Letting yourself truly relax will help you enjoy the experience, as it allows your body to loosen up and make the motions of anal play much smoother. Take your time with foreplay and understanding your body – allowing yourself to discover your own pleasure will make it easier to ease your way into anal play.
It may also be helpful to go solo. Before even introducing toys into the mix, as an anal beginner it can be helpful to learn about your own ass and its capabilities. It is important to learn about our own pleasure before introducing external tools. Going solo and exploring your body on your own will give you an idea of what you like and don’t like, as well as which muscles need to be relaxed in order to enjoy anal play.
Whenever you are ready to make the leap to using toys, take the time to research the toy you’re about to use. Make sure it is the right size, shape, and material for you. Feel free to ask questions to those that have been exposed to anal play! Asking questions and learning from experienced people is a great way to learn what the toy you’re about to purchase can do.
Finally, when you do start experimenting with anal play, go at a pace you are comfortable with. Make sure to use lots of lube, and always remove the toy when you’re done. Taking care of your toys and always practising safe sex and hygiene is always encouraged, and will help make your experience as enjoyable as possible.
To add to this, it is important to familiarize yourself with the various functions of a toy. Butt plugs and dildos come in all shapes, sizes and functionalities. Dildos can come with sonic vibration features, and some butt plugs are designed with tapered ends for ease of insertion. Additionally, many toys come with bendable or contoured head for increased pleasure. Knowing what kind of functions different butt plugs and dildos offer may help you in deciding which might best suit your needs and desires.
The right choice for anal play depends on the person and their level of experience. Understanding the materials, sizes and functionalities of different toys is important in order to determine which will be the most comfortable and enjoyable. Choosing the right buttplug or dildo is also a matter of finding the one that speaks to you, as everyone’s comfort zone is different. Remember to always go with the size and material that feels right for you.