When it comes to exploring self-pleasure, the ultimate Goal is always to get to that bigger and better dildo. Of course, you’ve got to work your way up to the bigger toys, as it takes time to get you body comfortable and confident with something bigger and longer. Last night, after days of looking through my nightstand drawer for the perfect dildo, I finally pulled it out – I was ready for the journey!
First thing’s first, make sure you’ve got plenty of lubricant! Whatever type of lube you prefer – water-based, silicone, hybrid, etc. – having plenty of it on hand is a non-negotiable when it comes to working your way up to a bigger dildo. You want to make sure you’re making the experience as comfortable as possible so that you can make the most out of it.
My next step was to start small, of course. I took out my smallest dildo and started off with a few shallow thrusts. I used my hand to guide and pull the dildo in and out, before switching up the angles and speeds. I knew I wanted to take my time and build up as I went – no point in overdoing it from the start.
I focused on allowing my body time to adjust to each size, taking ample time to enjoy the sensations that each dildo brought. What a journey it was! I allowed myself plenty of time to enjoy those kicks and shivers each step of the way. As I worked my way up, the pleasure and intensity started to build. After experimenting with several dildos, I eventually made it up to the big boy – the size I started out wanting.
If I’m being honest, I knew my body had no chance of taking the whole thing in at once, “I totally should’ve expected that” I thought. By this point, I’d worked up a pretty good arousal and it felt great. I laid on my back and started off with some shallow thrusts again, letting my body adjust to this bigger size, before taking it a little deeper. Eventually, I started to work my way up to the whole thing and let me tell you, it felt amazing!
Now I’m used to much more substantial sizes than when I started and experimenting with dildos can now be as thrilling as it is comforting. When it comes to working your way up to a bigger dildo, the reward is greater, the pleasure extensive and the road one of utmost comfort and joy. Don’t worry too much about speed or intensity – enjoy each step, each size and each moment.
If you’re hesitant on if you’d be able to take a bigger dildo or not, I’d recommend setting aside some time and diving into some shallow thrusts. Everything else, from there, is a matter of patience, plenty of lube and the willingness to letting the sensations shift and build until you get to total ecstasy. And the rest, as they say, is history!
Once you’ve become quite comfortable with a certain sized dildo, it’s time to move on up. I like to compare it to a butterfly taking its shape throughout metamorphosis. You start off small, weak and shy, before reaching peak adulthood in no time! Start off slow – no need to take on something too large from the get-go. Start off with the width of your pointer and middle fingers and gradually work your way up.
I like to alternate the intensity and variations of the thrusts, going from deep and hard to shallow and light. It’s all about finding what works for you and your body. There’s no need to be ashamed of your preferences, desires and curiosity. Exploring and figuring out what brings you the most pleasure is all part of the journey and should be done with absolute pride and joy.
Through my journey towards the bigger dildos, I’ve discovered different types of pleasure I never knew existed. I’ve come to the realization that when it comes to self-pleasure, the real magic lies in accepting and exploring the many paths that can lead to the most amazing experiences. It’s all a matter of staying open-minded and never stopping to move forward!
Whether you’re just starting out or already well-versed in the pleasures of sex toys, working your way up to a bigger dildo is a great way to become even more confident in your body and sexuality. Make sure to always have lube and condoms around, and never be afraid to take your self-pleasure journeys one step at a time. The journey can become as mind-blowing as it is comforting. Enjoy the ride!